Nancy D's Story of the Wedding Weekend

I arrived in Belvidere on WEDNESDAY afternoon, only minutes after Nancy and Tracey had checked in to their respective rooms. Since Nancy and I were roomies, she had all the forms filled out and I just had to get a key. We called Lisa, and when she came, we went out to eat a late lunch at Applebees. As we were driving back to the hotel from the restaurant, Lisa’s cell phone rings and, lo and behold, it’s Diane! She caught an early bus from O’Hare. We were only about 2 minutes from where she was, so we swung in, picked her up, and crowded into Nancy O’s car. Diane pulled into the hotel soon afterwards, and then we went to pick up Nina. Once Nina’s bus arrived we headed back to the hotel. (A lot of driving back and forth, huh? Fortunately it was only about 12 miles.) We settled Nina, then headed out to eat at Steak ‘n Shake (yum!). After dinner we went to Lisa’s house and got to check email on her computer (good thing, huh?) Then back to the hotel to wait for the groom and his family. They finally arrived and we didn’t even get to glimpse the groom and Lisa disappeared. What was that about anyway? <weg> We talked, laughed, ate cookies, and had a wonderful time getting to know each other all over again. Once we made the decision about what to do on Thursday, everyone just went off to bed.

 

THURSDAY was going to be a long day, so Nancy O and I went off to get bagels and muffins to fuel us before we took off for Crystal Lake to catch the 11AM train. The 45 minute drive to the train was interesting. Lisa has a little race car driver in her, and Diane had a hard time keeping up with her. She had to pull over at least one time in order to let us catch up! The ladies in the Dianemobile had a wonderful time, though, laughing and playing Song Burst. Wymzee definitely takes the prize for knowing the most words for the old songs. Unfortunately, we missed that train. Not because we were late, but because there was not ONE long term parking place to be had anywhere in town! We ended up taking the cars to Lisa’s friend (and matron of honor) and leaving them there. Good thing she was home! The train ride was filled with laughs and fun, of course. But it was odd how the cookie bag ended up in Lisa’s purse, never to be seen again! LOL We finally ended up in Chicago, and started on our journey. First stop: the downtown Marshall Field’s store. We explored all 8 stories of it, making sure we made a stop at the Frango counter. The clerk knew us well. She had a sample box out for us as soon as we walked into the department. Those Frango mints are addictive! More shopping, then a decision about LUNCH. Tracey HAD to have Chicago style pizza, so off we were to Michigan Avenue and the Golden Mile. Unfortunately, only Lisa realized it was a walk of about a million miles! LOL We walked and walked and looked and played with all the cows along the way and then we walked some more. FINALLY we got to Ontario St. and actually saw the Gino’s pizza sign. Thank God! They seated us right away in 2 tables, and the food feast began. I’d been to Gino’s before, so I knew that one Chicago style pizza would do for 5 people, especially with salads, but the other table proceeded to order one Chicago style, and then a thin crust (which turned out to be 2 thin crusts due to waiter error) and salad. Talk about stuffed people! LOL We rolled out of the restaurant and wallowed our way to Water Tower Place, which is more shopping, and I disappeared into Lord & Taylor, never to be seen again! At least not until meeting time. By the time we met, we were exhausted, and decided to take the bus back to the Metra station. I was elected to talk to the bus driver to see which bus to take, and he assured me his was the right one. OF course, once he took off I was sure we were going to end up in the Lake! But he was right, he dropped us right by the station, we got our tickets and finally got on the train. By this time, PC wasn’t feeling so great, and the trip back was a little more low key. We got back to Crystal Lake, picked up the cars, and headed back to Belvidere. By the time we got back, PC and JJ went off to their room, Keith said a long good bye to Lisa, and the rest of the broads decided they needed a little more nourishment to make it through the night. (You never know when your next meal might be, after all!) Tracey wanted to go to Perkins, so off we went in the Dianemobile again, to eat at Perkins at midnight.

 

FRIDAY morning. Lisa called and wanted to know what was up. We told her we were going to breakfast. (JJ and PC were still sleeping with a DO NOT DISTURB sign on the door. We didn’t! LOL) She decided to come with us, so we decided to give her an impromptu shower. Where did we go? Why, Tracey wanted to go to Cracker Barrel, so that is where we ended up. (Do you see a pattern forming here? <G>) We ate, we laughed, Lisa opened presents, and while she was feeling kindly towards us, we begged for a key so we could use her house (and Internet connection <G>) while she was at rehearsal dinner that night. Pretty slick, huh? After breakfast, I decided I needed to do a little more shopping, so went off to a local mall with Nina, Nancy and Semper Di. Afterwards, we went swimming in the hotel pool and practiced our synchronized swim routine. Too bad no one will be able to see it at TTP3! We cleaned up from swimming to do dinner. Tracey told us we were eating at Outback <G> to which we all agreed. She went off to the wedding rehearsal, leading the way with PC and JJ. Unfortunately, they got separated, and PC and JJ came back to the hotel for help. I, being the ever helpful one, went with them to the church, stayed for rehearsal, and drove back with Tracey to Outback, where the rest of the broads were already getting snockered! I quickly caught up, and we had another good time. Unfortunately, we had such a good time that we didn’t have much time at Lisa’s house for the computer! We all had a chance to check email and post the one infamous post, and off we were, back to the hotel, where we proceeded to have a fashion show and paint nails. What fun!

 

SATURDAY, the day of the wedding arrived, and it was the 3 H’s in the Midwest. Hazy, hot and humid! Our job was to be at the reception hall at noon to set up, after picking up the stuff at Lisa’s house. Our job was simple. Put out place cards, set up the music, make coffee ready to plug in…. little things like that. The caterer was supposed to get the tables set up the way he had arranged it with Lisa. Unfortunately, the caterer decided to do his own thing, and totally disregarded what Lisa had requested, and we had to do a quick rearrangement, which means we got all hot and sweaty in our wedding hairdos and make up. We did not have kind words to say about the caterer, let me tell you! We zoomed back to the hotel, changed into our wedding finery, and zoomed off to the wedding to do our wedding jobs. I was in charge of the guest book, Nina in charge of passing out programs, and Nancy O in charge of bubbles. We lived up to the challenge admirably! In a zip, it seemed, Lisa was ready to walk down the aisle, and the wedding was on! It all went by in a blur. Lisa was gorgeous, Keith handsome, and everyone suitably nervous, including us, I think. It was another great broad moment when Nina’s camera started to rewind during a solemn moment of the ceremony and she said an expletive. JJ did turn around and glare at us at that moment. LOL I cried, visibly, and the other broads laughed at me, but I think they were a little misty, too! Then the wedding was over, and we were outside, blowing bubbles at the bride and groom. Lisa’s grandpa enjoyed that part, I think. Tracey stayed back to play chauffeur for the happy couple, Nina stayed back to ride with PC and JJ to show them the way to the reception. (We weren’t going to take chances with losing them again! LOL) And Nancy O, Semper Di, Diane and I all loaded into the Dianemobile to head to the reception to do the last minute stuff.

 

THE RECEPTION was fun, easy going, and pretty low-key. We were in charge of the punch, and since it was a frozen thing, we did a lot of stirring to get it to drinking consistency. Ergo, the picture of Tracey and the punch. We took pictures, we got rowdy, we got nostalgic, and we were dying for some alcohol! So, when the wedding ended up, we all piled into cars and found a bar! We decided we needed more than a bar, we needed the pool, so we loaded back up again, sent Tracey off to get alcohol, and went back to the hotel to get out of the wedding finery and into the suits. Just as we were about to get into the pool, who shows up but the bride and groom. Well, then we really let our hair down! We laughed and drank and frolicked and played and laughed some more. I found some pool jets with which I became intimately acquainted. <weg> They do feel good on the back, you know! Oh, we had a little champagne and wine, too. It was here that Diane from Wisconsin said she would share some special Fess Parker (aka, Davey Crockett, Daniel Boone) wine. (You know that ba’ar that Davey killed when he was only 3? Well, I think he used it in this wine! LOL) It was awful! But Diane liked it. A lot! She drank the whole bottle and was preeetttyyy funny! The pool was getting pretty crowded by then, with other partyers, so the bride and groom took off (we know where you were going!) and the rest of us, except PC, went back to the Nancy room and proceeded to finish off the booze. We laughed, we laughed some more. We played Tracey’s question game. We ordered a gigantic pizza. We laughed even more. And then we decided it was time to play "Pin the Macho on the Man" game, similar to Pin the Tail on the Donkey. You can use your imagination as to what we were actually pinning on! LOL. Well, it was fun and we were laughing, but the most ROTFPIMP moment happened when we blindfolded Diane (the Fess Parker wine junkie). She was roaring loaded, and didn’t want to be twirled around, but hey, Nina did it anyway! LOL ... and as she was twirling her around, Tracey jumped up and opened the room door (which was where we had pinned the game) so that when Diane headed forward, she would go right outside. We were all laughing so hard we couldn’t breathe! It was a genuine broad moment. <G> But I have to give Diane credit. Even drunk, she has her wits about her. She felt the heat from the outside, and didn’t move from the air conditioned room. She did, however, lay down on Nancy O’s bed immediately afterwards and start snoring! What a hoot! We all went to our respective rooms soon afterwards and dreamed the night away.

 

On SUNDAY morning, we all went to breakfast (well, except for Lisa and Keith) and ate some more. We really needed to keep up our energy level, you know. Then we were off to Lisa’s grandparent’s farm for the present opening, and more food. We were just a little more somber this time, because we knew that 3 of the broads would be leaving right after that. That time went by in a blur, and soon we were saying goodbye to our friends. First Diane and Tracey took off in the Dianemobile. Then we (Nancy O, Semper DI, and I) dropped off Nina to catch her bus to O’Hare. I don’t like these goodbyes. They hurt more every time. Nancy, Semper DI and I went back to the hotel where we napped and read and napped some more. Then we took off to eat at a farm boy place, then drove around town again and stopped for ice cream. WE chatted some more in the Nancy room, and then we went to bed.

 

MONDAY morning I woke early and left by 7AM. Of course, everyone knows about Diane’s adventure after that, but that’s someone else’s story.

 

Nina and I discussed taking one of Nora’s books with us so that her words, and therefore her presence, as well as all of yours, could be there with us. I’m not sure if Nina remembered to bring one, I know I didn’t, but you were all in our hearts and in our thoughts during the whole weekend. I don’t know what destined this whole group to get together, but I treasure each moment

 

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